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Let's Talk About the New and Improved 7 Love Styles Let's talk about the ways partnerships have evolved and the resulting big changes to the original ‘Five Love Languages.’  With our evolving society, what it takes for a relationship to work with your loved ones may look very different than it did decades ago. There has been a bigger focus on other types of love, including self-love and platonic love. Therefore, a new and more comprehensive look at what it takes for people to be happy has changed from five to seven. There are now 7 Love Styles. The Original ‘Love Languages’ Dr. Gary Chapman, the marriage counselor who developed the 5 love languages, identified that there was often a disconnect between spouses who showed love and how their partners received those actions. Chapman observed that what one person thought was a display of love would fall flat for a partner who “spoke” a different love language.  Chapman identified five original love languages: Words of affirmation, ...

  So you have finished your test and need to score it now? You've come to the right place! First, make sure you have the scoring sheet:     •      PDF version     •       Google Sheets Version   • Feel free to make a copy of the google sheets version to edit it for yourself! It seems daunting at first, but scoring the test is not very difficult once you learn how.  1. On the sheet, you will mark a tally for A or B for each question 1-70, going from left to right.  2. Once you have done that, you will write the total number of tally marks for A and B in each Column.  3. Columns 2, 4, and 6 are carried over to the right and added to the totals of columns 3, 5, and 7, respectively.  4. Finally, carry the numbers down to the cells above the letters E/I, S/N, T/F, and J/P. 5. Circle the higher number above each pair of letters. Together, these make your MBTI type! If you get equal numbers in any of...

  MBTI x Pokemon Test 👉Before you start: download the scoring sheet HERE!👈 This MBTI x Pokemon Test is based on the original test and has a whopping 70 questions! It can be time-consuming, and ensuring that you have ample time to take the test is helpful.  This page can be printed, or you can simply write down your answers as you go.  1. When playing Pokemon, do you prefer to:     a. Interact with many, including strangers     b. Interact with a small group of friends

  Steel - INTJ As a secretive steel type, you’re fine with waiting in the back of the party until it’s absolutely necessary for you to strike. When you do arrive, the opponent better be wary; you’ve had this fight figured out from the beginning. INTJs live in the world of ideas and strategic planning. They value intelligence, knowledge, and competence and typically have high standards in these regards, which they continuously strive to fulfill. To a somewhat lesser extent, they have similar expectations of others. Like the INTJ, steel types will cut to the heart of any issue. 

  Dragon - ESFP Who better to take center stage than a dragon-type trainer? Loud and boisterous, you’re always making a scene, and for good reason. The other types fear you, as they should. Use that enormous power of yours to take them down with ease.

  Ghost - ISTP As a Ghost-type trainer, your opponent might think that they know what to expect from you, but do they have another thing coming. Up, left, right, or in the shadows, where you are and what you’re doing is a mystery to your opponent. Keep up that element of a surprise to throw off your opponent and make a winning strategy. Ghost types analytical. Nothing is getting past you. You’re not one to just sit there and deal damage. You’re busy, confusing, and paralyzing in between. You know that there’s more to battling than meets the eye, and you’re going to capitalize on that knowledge. ISTPs are focused internally and deal with things rationally and logically, making ISTPs and Ghost types a perfect match.  Dark - ISTP As a Dark-type trainer, your opponent might think that they know what to expect from you, but do they have another thing coming. Up, left, right, or in the shadows, where you are and what you’re doing is a mystery to your opponent. Keep up that element o...